Birthday Traditions
Every year when I was a kid my parents would let me choose where I wanted to eat dinner out for my birthday. Since I have a June birthday, another birthday tradition they kept going was to have a small party – including a cookout – for me with family and friends. Kids love to feel special, and it can be a challenge to find the time to come up with ways to make a birthday a knockout. Never fear! Below are 8 ideas for birthday traditions to start with your own kids. Pick and choose a few of them each year. Mix them up, try them out, add your own special flair, and you just might find the perfect new tradition your birthday kid will love!
1. Rise and shine. I like to wake my kids up on their birthday not with, “Get up! It’s time for school!” but with an extra long snuggle and the condensed version of the day they were born. Who doesn’t like to hear their birth story? Adopted and foster children can be told how they were brought into the family and how special they are.
2. Birthday letter. Every year I type up a birthday letter for each of my children telling them what great things they did, said and learned during the past year. I give the birthday child a copy, then save a copy in a binder and on my computer for myself (because we all know kids can’t keep track of stuff.) The plan is to give each of my children a copy of all their letters when they move out, which means they’ll have somewhere between 18 and 30 letters to enjoy!
3. Birthday slideshow. With just a few clicks of your mouse you can create a special slideshow using PowerPoint or a similar computer program. Just pop in photos, size them and add cute captions. You can even add music. After your child watches it about a zillion times, save it to a CD and pop it in a special place (safe deposit box, fireproof box, etc.) so your child will always have it.
4. Photos. I try to take as many pictures as I can on birthdays and even make sure I’m included in some of them — since I’m the mom and all! Later we like to get out old photo albums and the birthday kid’s baby album to pour over old memories.
5. Special meal. One of my kids loves the neighborhood restaurant where they sing Happy Birthday and are given a balloon to take home. Another is content heading to the local fast food indoor play area and grabbing bites of food in between trips down the slide. Make at least one meal for the birthday child – something out of the ordinary!
6. Special treat. We like to hit the cupcake restaurant or grab huge, frosted cookies from a local baker and share them with our friends and neighbors to spread the celebration around. A cheap (and just as special) route would be to make your child’s favorite dessert at home – cookies, cake, banana splits, shakes or ice cream sundaes are always a good bet. Depending on which fruit is in season (or go frozen!), a decadent fruit smoothie made with frozen yogurt could be nice.
7. Party – and it doesn’t have to be on the actual birthday. If you get a few gray hairs every time you think of planning a birthday party, don’t fret. Options include: a simple party at your place with just a few people, a bash at a park shelter or a celebration where a local children’s party place does all the work. If you’re child’s birthday comes at a hectic time of year (like during the holidays or certain school breaks) make a tradition of celebrating at a different time.
8. Birthday weekend sleepover with a few special friends (for kids over age 7). Warning: this one is not for the faint of heart! Order pizza to make life easy on yourself, grab some movies from the library, and have them set up their sleeping bags as far away from your bedroom as possible because loud laughter and lots of giggles will probably ensue.
Kerrie McLoughlin is the proud and kooky mom of five. Check out their adventures at TheKerrieShow.com.
